Fifty years ago, on this date (a Tuesday then, the day after Memorial Day), classmate and longtime friend Kevin O’Malley and I took off from Logan Airport in Boston bound for a four-week tour of Europe. We left in late May because the airfare went up in June. I had left Columbia Journalism School a little early, missing graduation ceremonies in early June. (They mailed me the degree.)
Kevin had made all the plans — itinerary, hotels, etc. — for which I thank him effusively and very belatedly.
Here’s the list of locations, in order, and a map:
Amsterdam
Copenhagen
Munich
Lucerne/Wengen
Venice
Florence
Rome
Nice/Monaco
Paris
I kept a journal during the trip, which will be a source for posts about each of the destinations. And there will be some of what we remember (we have reputations to protect). Kevin will be contributing his recollections.
And there will be lots of photos. You’ll get to see what some of Europe looked like a half-century ago. The scenes were captured on positive film, 35-mm slides, using a Nikon F I had purchased in Japan in 1969 while in the Navy on deployment to the Western Pacific (still have it). Film was Kodachrome and Ektachrome, names totally unfamiliar to many younger folk.
I expect nearly all of us wanted 2021 to be normal. I did some things this year I hadn’t done for more than a year and also hunkered down a bit. I hope you and your families were safe and healthy during this unforgettable (or forgettable?) year.
For me, the year started with a couple of unusual experiences.
I’ve been a volunteer at the Farmers Insurance Open golf tournament in San Diego for almost 10 years. In January, the tournament took place, but without fans. (Then why have marshals?) I was assigned to a different hole than in the past, however — Torrey Pines’ #3 hole SouthCourse, the most photographed hole on the course. It was a somewhat weird experience, but a relatively pleasant one.
You can see more from that tournament, featuring some awesome skyscapes and turbulent weather here.
Early in the year, I was elected president of the Anza-Borrego Foundation (ABF), official nonprofit partner of Anza-Borrego Desert State Park, the state’s largest at 640,000 acres. I am, of course, unworthy to hold this position, but very honored to do so. I have been a member of the board for several years and was vice president for five years.
In November, I joined other trustees in the desert for a board meeting, the first time we had held a meeting in person in nearly two years. I had the pleasure later of joining colleagues on an excursion into a remote area and welcomed the desert experience again.
My grandgirls started the year schooling remotely and returned to school in person in August. Adeline is in 4th grade and Alice in 1st. Meredith continues to work at the local Boys & Girls Club and Winter at Charlie’s Foreign Auto in Encinitas.
Dillon, who had lived nearby for several years, moved to Michigan in early December to join sister Julia and brother-in-law Sam in Ypsilanti. That’s why he’s in the picture with them. Julia and Sam bought a house there in November.
Bodacious “Boo,” the cat Julia and I rescued in 2005, showed major signs ofdistress in June and he was euthanized. Boo was not an “easy” cat, but he was also unforgettable and he has been very much missed by me. That said, within a few days of his death, Julia sent me a pictureof a rescue cat in San Diego and I secured her. When she hid in the fireplace soon after arrival, she got the name Cinderella.
Also, in June, another distinctive experience for me. I served as a volunteer at the US Open Golf Championship, played at Torrey Pines. I was Hole Captain at #11, a par 3 that had the highest scoring average relative to par on the course. I supervised 28 marshals who worked am or pm shifts over a few days. The hole captain had the sole privilege of working every shift over seven days. On the second day of thetournament, I was caught in perhaps my favorite screen shot from my golf experiences. Much more about the US Open here.
We celebrated Alice’s 6th birthday in July on the beach with guests, as we had in 2019. That was when a lot of people thought we had overcome the virus. Then Delta dawned.
The BC San Diego alumni chapter renewed football game watches this fall, choosing a location that offered open doors for air circulation. It was fun. Some new folks joined us. Just wish the Eagles had done better.
My BC buds and I decided in the spring to reinstate our annual football game gathering. We gathered for the BC-NC State game Oct. 16. Over 8 days, I also visited family and friends, spending a couple of days on Cape Cod. As always, Marcy and Larry Kenah were gracious and generous hosts.
On Halloween, Meredith, Dillon, and I attended the Patriots-Chargers NFL gamein SoFi Stadium, LA. We literally had seats in the last row of a 70,000-seat stadium that is an engineering marvel. Protocol was that everyone was to wear a face mask, but it was honored more in the breach. I am not a fan of the modern sports experience. The atmosphere is too loud, people are too drunk, the focus is on constant “entertainment,” not the sport. Get off my lawn! As usual, there were more fans of the opponent than of theChargers. Pats won, 27-24, allowing a late TD to make it close. More about that experience here.
Baxter has noted he’s the only living creature among us not included in this letter. ‘Nuff said.
Merry Christmas to you and your family. I hope we will gather again safely and happily. May 2022 allow us to renew!
On Halloween Sunday, Meredith, Dillon, and I traveled to LA to attend the Patriots-Chargers game at SoFi Stadium. It was the first NFL game any of us had attended. (I don’t think I can count the AFL Jets-Boston Patriots game I attended in 1963 at Fenway Park. That was pre-merger.)
Dillon is an uber-fan of the Pats and Meredith is also a fan, when they’re not playing the Packers. I was most interested, frankly, in the stadium. Pictures of it made it seem pretty futuristic, an engineering/architectural marvel.
Parking at the stadium is sold out, so we went to a parking garage near LAX and took a bus to the stadium. Dillon was wearing a Patriots uniform top and he did not stand out among the several fans on the bus similarly attired. While we waited to board, Meredith chatted with, of course, someone who had moved out here from New Hampshire and also in a Pats jersey.
The stadium was constructed with the field 100 feet below grade and the roof rising to 253 feet, so it is sunken to accommodate the overhead flights paths to and from LAX.
It’s a pretty awesome entrance.
Getting to our seats was a trip. They were literally in the last row. And the section was very steep. I was quite winded getting to them and Meredith experienced some dizziness from the experience. She stayed there for the entire game. When Dillon and I went to get food at halftime, I returned to our seats in “phases.”
Fans of opposing teams nearly always (maybe always) outnumber Chargers fans at home games. Certainly this game was no exception, as Patriots fans were substantially present. In a county with 10 million residents (more than 39 states, including New Jersey, Virginia, and Massachusetts), there are going to be lots of fans of other teams.
When the Chargers took the field, there were loud cheers. When the Patriots appeared, there were very loud cheers.
This video will give you a sense of the difference in grade between external and internal.
Our seats, with only the ceiling above us, did give us a good view of the stadium’s superstructure and the heavy cables.
The game (oh yeah, the game) was very close, with the Chargers ahead by one point entering the fourth quarter. A pick-six interception and two-point conversion put the Pats up by seven. They added a field goal to lead by 10. A late drive led by Justin Herbert added a touchdown and extra point with 40 seconds to go, but an onside kick was recovered by the Patriots who then ran out the clock.
Overall, the tone of the game, perhaps surprisingly, was defensive. The Patriots gained 352 yards, 210 passing, while the Chargers passed for 206 yards and rushed for an average of eight yards per carry for 163 yards. New England possessed the ball for more than 10 minutes longer than the Chargers and ran 75 plays, compared to 58 by the Chargers.
LA County regulations required wearing masks throughout the game, except when eating and drinking, and on transportation. Many if not most fans dumped the masks during the game.
I’m glad we went to the game, but I have no interest in attending another. Costs too much, everything is too loud, and the fans are too drunk. Professional and major college sports are operated as entertainment more than sport. The only times when there is not very loud sound is when an actual play takes place, but that is comparatively minuscule and the crowd is loud.
The huge screen was helpful, because we could view play and replays closer than from our seats. But it was more an irritant in that it carried ads and promos as well. Also seemed odd that the statistics presented were not of the game, but of fantasy football stats throughout the league. I can’t imagine something more inane than the announcer screaming SECONNNNDDDD DOWNNNNNNNNNN! every time the Chargers made one. The scream came after every down, but that just seemed more inane.
SoFi is to be surrounded by a 300-acre mixed-use development currently under construction. Plans are for up to five million square feet of office space, a retail district of up to 890,000 square feet, 6,000-seat performance venue, 300-room hotel, and up to 2,500 residences. They will border a six-acre artificial lake and 25 acres of public parks and plazas.
The Forum was once the home of the LA Lakers and the NHL Kings, a sports mecca. They left in 1999 and there are plans to renovate the structure into a concert arena. Opened in late 1967, the structure was also regarded at the time as futuristic. Looks like that not so much in this shot from SoFi. Guess 50+ years will do that to you, says the person who had just turned 21 when the Forum opened.
SoFi Stadium itself contains 3.1 million square feet and can seat 70,240. For events such as a Super Bowl (2022), Olympics, and similar scale events, it can accommodate up to 100,000 fans.
Walking to the stadium, we saw one building already in place — the West Coast headquarters of the National Football League.
Dorothy Parker, one of the great wits and writers of the mid-20th century, is quoted as saying that, while she hated writing, “I loved having written.”
Regarding my time as a hole captain at the US Open Golf Championship June 14-20 at Torrey Pines, I can say, “I loved having been hole captain.”
Let me cut to the quick, though, before I tell you why and share other info about the Open.
On Friday afternoon, June 18, during the second round of the tournament, I received a text from one of the marshals with whom I had worked earlier saying I was “very photogenic.” Thanks, but what brought that up? Shortly thereafter, got a text from classmate and old friend Kevin O’Malley about my “amazing cameo.” I didn’t know to what they referred until I got home that evening and looked at the telecast. This was it.
I was assisting the two marshals assigned to the green when popular players were at the hole. Crowds just made it more difficult, especially when tee shots went awry. Thus I was there when Phil Mickelson teed off. This screen shot from the telecast shows just how offline his tee shot was.
When shots such as this happen, marshals move to locate and protect the ball from fans, requesting them to provide space around it. When the player and caddy arrive, they may ask marshals to remove crowd control ropes and poles. Television, I knew, was likely showing Mickelson in his predicament, following him as he considered how to play his next shot. At one point, the director switched cameras to one behind the hole, putting me briefly within camera view.
Some people said I looked “angry.” I prefer the description offered by classmate and friend Ed Hattauer, who said I had a look of “fierce concentration.” I think I was just tired.
For several years, I had volunteered as a marshal and hole captain at the Farmers Insurance Open held at Torrey Pines each January. An added benefit to doing so, I thought, was that it might give me an advantage in being selected as a volunteer for the US Open. Maybe it did, but the coronavirus pandemic likely had much more of an effect in tamping down the number of potential volunteers from around the country.
In any case, I was invited to be a volunteer and then later invited to be a hole captain. Allowing the public to view the tournament, however, remained an open question for a long time. The Farmers tournament took place last January, but without fans. I was told that it was not until about three months before the US Open was to begin that a limited number of fans became possible.
Volunteers had been told that all would have to provide either proof of full vaccination or a negative test within 72 hours of the beginnings of their shifts. Shortly before the tournament began, the United States Golf Association (USGA), sponsor of the US Open, announced that a maximum of 10,000 fans could attend Thursday-Sunday. They also said everyone attending the tournament, including fans, had to show proof either of full vaccination or a negative test. The nearby University of California San Diego (UCSD) medical staff operated testing facilities adjacent to the tournament entrance.
We were required to wear masks at all times the first day. On Tuesday, June 15, a previously announced state-issued relaxation of COVID-related restrictions went into effect. We were then advised to wear masks when we were close to large groups of people, particularly standing close, facing them.
So, to the tournament.
I was assigned as hole captain for #11 on Torrey Pines, South Course. Compared to the North Course, the South is considered of greater “championship” quality. During the Farmers tournament, players play on alternate courses in the first two rounds, with the final two rounds played on the South.
Ironically, in each of my first two years as a volunteer at the Farmers, I worked on 11 North on Thursday/Friday and on 11 South on the weekend. So my assignment on 11 South for the US Open was something of a bookend moment.
11 South is a long par 3. For the practice rounds Monday-Wednesday, the tee was set back as far as it could go, creating a 225-yard hole. The first golfer on Monday morning, practicing as a single, with only his caddy along, stood at the tee and gazed out at the hole. Sighing, he said, “It’s so far.”
Later that morning, a larger group came to the tee. It included Phil Mickelson, Bryson DeChambeau, and teen protege Akshay Bhatia. Mickelson hit his tee shot beyond the pin, which was located on the front lower level of the green. The ball started to roll back toward the pin and was looking really good. “Oh no!,” said Mickelson. “Don’t be a 1. Not now!” The ball slid quite close by the pin, but ended up several feet past it.
No fans were on the course during the first two practice days. I was at the course, along with three marshals assigned on those days. I still don’t understand why we were there. The issue, in terms of marshals, at 11S is the crosswalk, shown in the view from the green (above). With no fans, the only traffic on the crosswalk was carts. On those first days, lots of “stuff” was being transported by electric and gas carts. I had a marshal at each end of the crosswalk to place and remove a rope barrier when carts sought to cross, depending on whether players were on the tee or walking toward the hole.
Golfers practice on Monday/Tuesday at the Farmers, too, with no marshals and somehow that works. Most of the cart drivers have worked at previous tournaments and know to look at the tee before using the crosswalk. With a marshal at the tee and green, in addition to the two at the crosswalk, that used up the four assigned. It meant there was no one to relieve a marshal for a bathroom break or lunch.
I had been surprised to learn a few days before the tournament that there were 29 marshals assigned to 11S. That was far more than I expected. At the Farmers, when I had been hole captain at the 615-yard par 5, I never had more than 20. Whereas marshals at the Farmers received day-long assignments, however, the USGA had two shifts — morning (7-noon) and afternoon (noon-8 pm). (The 8 pm was in case there was a delay.) I dealt, therefore, with two groups of marshals each day, which added to the complexity.
To help in planning marshal assignments, I downloaded an app. Well, I brought a tablet, a small pad of paper, and a writing instrument, a pen. Drawing a sophisticated representation of the space, I would indicate placement of personnel on each shift. Here’s an example from one of the shifts during the tournament itself.
Wednesday didn’t feature a pro-am, as the Farmers and most other tournaments do, but the course was open to active duty members of the military and veterans, and their families. There were more people to manage, but far fewer than during the tournament itself.
I mentioned the marshals being assigned to shifts. Most were assigned to one shift on multiple days, a few did consecutive shifts on the same day. Pretty much all of them were assigned to no more than three or four shifts total. I should point out at this time, however, one exception. For the privilege of being hole captain, I was assigned to each shift, each day. That meant, counting driving time, 12 to 14-hour days Monday-Wednesday. At least, in June, I didn’t leave and arrive back at home in the dark, which was often the case in January at the Farmers. A small consolation, however. It still meant getting home, grabbing something to eat, and then pretty quickly going to bed to get at least some sleep before getting up at 4:30 to start over.
I came home really tired those first few days. According to my steps app, I started off on Monday of tournament week doing 11,928 steps and six “flights climbed.” That’s a little more than six miles. There is also a fair amount of elevation change on 11S. The tee is significantly elevated. Walking back and forth on the hole, which was what I did much of every day, was taxing for me, who had probably averaged a couple of miles a day, and that’s from mostly walking the dog. After a few days, however, I realized that those early days were getting me more fit to handle the rest of the week. I actually felt better as the week went on.
Overall, Monday-Sunday, I walked 89,228 steps and 56 flights. That’s about 45 miles, an average of 6+ miles a day. My highest totals came on Thursday, day of the opening round. That was the first day we had a full complement of marshals, 9-10 each shift, so I was more than usually active and mobile. The totals on Thursday were 16,129 steps and 12 flights.
Thursday, the day of the first official round, got off to a slow start. Morning fog, the “marine layer,” covered sections of the course, including the area around 11. Start of play was delayed 90 minutes and I didn’t get to leave to go home until 7:30 pm. Several groups didn’t finish before dark, so play was also delayed on Friday morning for them to complete the last few holes. (In 2013, my first year volunteering at the Farmers, I spent my first day on 11S on that Saturday. I sat at the tee as fog came and went, and the tournament was delayed again and again. Finally, in mid-afternoon, the PGA called it a day. I had sat there for eight-plus hours, watching the 11th green appear, disappear, appear . . . . Sure was worried that might happen again.)
As with previous tournaments, my attention was focused on one hole and, even then, not on the golf played there, per se. The focus was on managing the situation, i.e., the marshals, fans, players, caddies, and their interaction. I might see the leader board on occasion, and notice who was leading, but it had little relevance to my job. Interestingly, besides the Mickelson event noted earlier, there was not a lot of action on 11S until the last day, and the last few groups.
When the leaders began to come to 11S on Sunday, there was quite a number of them near the top. It seemed at the time logical to expect a playoff among players tied for the lead after 18.
American Express had been handing out devices that carried on-course live audio coverage of the tournament. It was limited to the event and the location. You needed an American Express card to get one. American Express and I had a troubled relationship years back, so I didn’t have an AmEx card. Walking around on Saturday, I believe, I saw one of the device boxes lying on the fairway. I picked it up to dispose of it, expecting it to be empty. It felt heaver than empty, though. I opened it and found a device, which helped me keep track of things going on in the tournament.
Listening to reports, I learned then that holes 11-13 had been the most difficult on the course during the tournament, with 11 being the hardest. Well, those holes were where some of the leaders started to fall off the pace on Sunday. Starting with Bryson DeChambeau. Missing a hole-in-one on 8 by, literally, an inch, he was leading the tournament when he came to the 11th tee. He pushed his tee shot into the rough to the right of the green. Chipping onto the green, he two-putted for a bogey. DeChambeau followed that with another bogey on 12 and a double bogey on 13. He had 44 strokes on the back nine and finished at +3, tied for 26th.
The last twosome — South African Louis Oosthuizen and Canadian Mackenzie Hughes — provided an exciting finish for 11S. Oosthuizen hit a shot similar to Dechambeau, to the right of the green. Hughes hit a major hook.
His ball struck the cart path to the left of the green, bounced up . . . and never came down. The crowd — by now, it was a crowd following the last twosome — gathered around where the ball had bounced and some started looking up. Then someone, and then someone else, saw the ball, caught among the branches of a tree.
As Hughes, his caddy, and tournament officials got to the scene, and saw the ball, the crowd began to chant “Shake the tree! Shake the tree!” I became increasingly concerned that some of them would, indeed, try to shake the tree to loosen the ball.
One of the media photographers was able to get a closeup of the ball, and Hughes was able to confirm it was indeed his. The original ball stayed where it was and a USGA official permitted a free drop for a replacement ball on the cart path. A drop to the grass next to the cart path, however, was a stroke penalty. Hughes ended up with a double bogey on the hole, while Oosthuizen, who hit his tee shot to about the same place as DeChambeau, shot a bogey 4.
The average score on 11S during the tournament was 3.39, 13 percent over par, the highest percentage over par of any hole.
When Oosthuizen and Hughes finished at 11S, my job was pretty much done. A bunch of the marshals at 11S volunteered to go to 18 for the conclusion. The USGA wanted to avoid what had happened a month before at the PGA Championship, when fans moved onto the fairway of the last hole, almost surrounding winner Phil Mickelson and Brooks Koepka and creating a potentially dangerous situation. Marshals lined the fairway to prevent something similar from happening at Torrey Pines.
There wasn’t the drama that day, however. Three groups ahead of the last twosome, Jon Rahm had made two long putts on 17 and 18 to finish at six-under-par. Oosthuizen had bogied 17 and needed an eagle on 18 to tie Rahm. He shot a birdie 4, but lost by one.
By that time, I might have gotten home. All I wanted to do when I did get home was . . . nothing.
As I said at the top, I was and am glad to have finished my job at the US Open. I met new people, including lots of great marshals assigned to 11S. That’s likely my last volunteer stint at a US Open Golf Championship. The marshals committee chair for the 2022 Farmers Insurance Open has gotten in touch to see if I’m interested in volunteering again. I answered in the affirmative. I contemplate a pleasant time as hole captain at 3S, one of the prettiest golf holes I’ve seen. Hope it comes to pass.
Confident young golfer
On Wednesday, I believe, I noticed a young girl, maybe 12-13, wearing an “Amherst” sweatshirt. Amherst College is located in Western Massachusetts, the region where I was born and grew up. Later, I saw her and her mother, I figured, near the tee at 11. I approached them and asked the girl, “So, who went to Amherst?” Her mother answered, “I did.” “And,” she added, “I went to Amherst High.” “Wow, a townie!,” I said. “And Croatian,” she said. Yes, she certainly realized how distinctive she was at tony Amherst.
I asked the girl if she intended to go to Amherst. “Oh, yes,” she said. Short pause. “And I’m going to be on the golf team there.” I praised her confidence. I also asked if she would consider attending Williams College, Amherst’s historic and intense rival. “Williams is my backup school,” she said. Ooooookay.
Logistics
In the version of Maslow’s “hierarchy of needs” for golf tournament marshals, near the top are the location of the nearest bathroom facilities and how/where do I get lunch.
Interestingly, for us at 11, those were both at about the same place, and not particularly close. To visit a porta potty, we had to walk a couple of hundred yards past the grandstand on 11 that was at the rear of the green. Not terrible, but another elevation change, and significantly farther if you were at the crosswalks or, especially, the tee.
Because we were never flush with marshals, it was especially difficult to release people to go to get lunch and sit down to eat it. I encouraged marshals who had afternoon shifts to get lunch before reporting, and asked morning shift marshals to wait for their relief. Too often, however, it was not always possible. I tried to take people’s places to allow them to get their lunch and bring it back to their post. That meant that almost every day I was able to get to the lunch stand only near the end of the time slot (11 am-2 pm). I had the ham and Swiss once. I almost had the tarragon chicken salad once, but I realized the mayo-laden chicken salad had been sitting out in the heat for quite a while. The hummus options were usually the only ones available, so I concentrated on the chips and cookies.
At least for the fans, alcohol was available more readily.
Close call
On Friday, I was assisting at the green and moved to its right side when a shot landed among the fans there. As I motioned people to move back, I heard people yelling, “Watch out!” A ball then plopped down very close to me and rolled to within a foot of the previous ball. That’s when I learned you can mark your ball on the fairway, or rough in this case, not just on the green. Each of the players, who were not going to make the cut, got up-and-down for pars.
Swag
For the ~$150 I paid to volunteer at the US Open, I got a ball cap, two polo shirts, and a rain jacket. The shirts and jacket were Ralph Lauren Polo. Some of the marshals assigned to 11S who had also worked the previous US Open at Torrey Pines in 2008 didn’t think the quality of the shirts was as good as at the previous Open. I wasn’t a fan of the “look,” but I think the jacket is pretty nice.
To identify me as hole captain, I was provided an armband. When I started to put it on, I realized how large it was in circumference. The average size of biceps for men my age is 12.9 inches. As a smaller-than-average guy, mine may well be even smaller. The USGA armband was 15-1/4 inches in circumference, so maybe they intended it for Bryson DeChambeau or Brooks Koepka, not me. There was also no velcro option to make it smaller. Poor design. I was advised by a USGA rep to just hang it around the lanyard that held my credentials.
The armband was mine to keep, so that’s a nice memento. I would have dearly liked to have the US Open hole flag that flew on 11, but I assume that graces the den of a major donor to the USGA.
Post-tournament, the USGA sent me, and I assume all volunteers, a replica of a poster of appreciation signed by all the players. That was a nice touch.
Sunday at the US Open Golf Championship traditionally falls on Fathers’ Day. USGA reps handed out a button acknowledging the day to likely dads, both volunteers and fans.
And, to mark the circumstance that has had impacts on all our lives, we were provided US Open face masks. I hope it is a one-off and none will be necessary at future tournaments. I expect this may be a curiosity item in years to come. “Why did great-grandpa have a mask for the golf tournament?”
No, I’m not talking about weird agriculturists. The topic here is the 2021 Farmers Insurance Open held at Torrey Pines in the midst of the coronavirus pandemic. Players, caddies, marshals, TV, but no fans. Really quiet surroundings. A different, somewhat freaky, experience.
For the record, the winner of the tournament was Patrick Reed. He tied for the lead after the first round, fell one stroke behind to second on Friday, was tied for the lead after three, and forged ahead on Sunday to a five-stroke win, 14 under par.
As a marshal/hole captain, I spent my days on one hole and that narrow focus pretty much excludes having a good sense of the flow of the tournament, who’s moving up and down, etc. This was especially true this year due to the absence of scoreboard bearers accompanying each group.
Besides all the changes to the tournament as a result of the pandemic, the biggest change for me personally was a change in the hole to which I was assigned. A few months before the tournament began, I was offered the opportunity to move from the par-5, 615-yard, 9th hole on the South Course to the par-3 3rd hole on South. There was somewhat of the sense of going out to pasture, moving from managing 16-30 marshals to overseeing 2-3 and dealing with a hole with farfewer complexities. But I was ready for that and 3 South is iconic at Torrey Pines.
Reportedly the most-photographed hole on the course (it’s the cover photo on the official course map), the hole features an elevated tee and a green on the edge of a bluff over the Pacific. From the tee, where the elevation adds to the view, one sees the community of La Jolla on the horizon to the southwest. The hole was featured continually on the Golf Channel and CBS telecasts, with drones and the Goodyear blimp offering dramatic aerial views. This is a drone-eye view, copied from the telecast (if a small image appears, click on it).
Equipment means a lot to golfers. Keeping up with new developments and trends fuels the golf economy. Equipment for marshals is pretty basic: your tournament hat, shirt, and jacket. This year, a new addition — masks — which were required for all marshals all the time and for other officials as well. Players did not wear masks and only some caddies did.
My getup was a double mask. I wore a KF94, the Korean version of the N95, underneath a silicone mask that contained a filter of similar efficacy. I had not worn masks for such an extended period (5-7 hours each day for 5 days) as during the tournament. They were not uncomfortable. I could breathe easily, even climbing up rather steep terrain. Breathing into them that long, however, sometimes created quite a bit of humidity and the atmosphere in there turned a bit “funky.” I became certainly more empathetic about health care and other essential workers who must wear masks for extended periods, day after day.
We were also checked out before entering the course. We had to pass through temperature and security screenings. On Thursday, they had switched to a scanner used at airports, which didn’t require someone putting a sensor up to your forehead. It went off, however, when I passed by. The young woman monitoring the device took an individual reading of my temperature with a handheld sensor, and I was fine. She said I might have had “cap warmth.” I had worn my cap in from the car, only taking it off as I passed the scanner. From then on, I removed my cap on the walk from my car to the screening tent and never had another problem.
The first day of a tournament is the pro-am on Wednesday, when non-professionals pay tons to play a round with a pro. No TV, very few fans outside of family and friends and usually a really long day for marshals and other volunteers. With two waves of participants teeing off on holes 1 and 10 in the morning and afternoon, it has always been a dawn-to-dusk assignment. Until this year. For me, with a 45-minute drive to Torrey Pines (without traffic), it was still a 3:30 am wakeup and a pre-dawn drive. First tee-off was 6:40 am, essentially dawn. But the pandemic brought participation way down and there was only one wave, and that smaller than usual. The last group went by hole #3 shortly after noon and we were out of there by 1:30.
The first round of the tournament, on Thursday, featured a distinctive special moment. When I had posted on Facebook about my first day at the course, a high school classmate messaged me, asking me to convey regards to Richy Werenski, a young golfer from South Hadley, near where we had grown up in Springfield, in Western Massachusetts. I saw that Werenski was in the fifth group. When he entered the tee box, I said, “Go Western Mass.!” He glanced over at me, seemingly surprised, smiled, and said “Yeah. Thanks.”
Other friends had said earlier they hoped that, being on a par-3 hole, I might have the chance to see a hole-in-one. Done. Richy Werenski, buoyed, I think, by my “hometown encouragement,” hit a hole-in-one. I didn’t see it occur. I heard people around the green clap and cheer. Werenski didn’t see it either. He looked around and asked, “Did it go in?” It did.
Thing is, it was early in the first round and Werenski was with a like group of golf non-superstars. There was no TV and no video to share on social media. Thus, it was recorded officially as a hole-in-one, but, in many respects, it never happened, except for the several people who literally saw it. The next morning, I reported to the marshals’ office to pick up my radio and stuff and told the above anecdote. No one there had heard about a hole-in-one. There was also no mention in media coverage of the day, at least that I saw. (After shooting 6 under par for the first two rounds, Werenski was 8 over par on the final two rounds, finishing 2 over and tied for 60th.)
There were forecasts for Friday that predicted steady rain of 1-2 inches in La Jolla throughout the day. That’s a lot for this area. I had prepared, purchasing rain pants and waterproof socks to go with my waterproof hiking boots and waterproof shell. My outfit, seen at right, ended up being effective, though it was not needed as extensively as expected.
When I left Fallbrook that morning, it was raining. When I got to Torrey Pines, the sky was clear and sunny. It had rained hard overnight, but the morning on Friday was pleasant. Skies to the east and north contained lots of clouds and the expectation was that inclement weather would happen there.
Late morning, however, skies to the west started to look threatening. Forecasts online called for rain and wind to come around midday. The forecasts were accurate. I’ve learned that rain around here often comes in cells and/or bands. Brief intense rain and wind, a bit of a respite, then another intense band, and so on. That was generally what happened on Friday. At one point, I heard the 15 South hole captain on the radio reporting hail. Here is a gallery of weather-related images from Friday. (Click on the image and you can advance through larger images.)
Five years ago, the 3rd hole had been something of a bad-weather TV star. The last round of the tournament then was suspended because of weather. The course was evacuated and the round was completed on Monday, without fans or marshals, because damage to trees on the course had made it dangerous. Before play was called, however, it continued in very difficult conditions. Colt Knost was in a threesome playing on 3S, trying to convince a PGA official that conditions were just too difficult for him to attempt his putt. The PGA official was stoic and urged Knost on. Colt putted and the ball went left of the hole. Then, however, the wind caught it and pushed it back toward the hole, and into the hole for a birdie. Hilarity ensued, as you can see in this clip, and the video received wide exposure.
Saturday was crisp and sunny, but Sunday was warm enough that, for the first time during the tournament, I removed my jacket. Still with a cold weather layer underneath, I should emphasize. At one point on the tee, I saw a cameraman come up to the tee and put himself directly opposite from me, with the golfers teeing off between us. Hmmm, I thought, I could end up on TV. Done. Here’s the screenshot from Golf Channel, with golfer Sam Burns also in the picture. The camera was there for all three golfers, but this was the only view of me that made the telecast.
It’s probably the best screen capture of me at Torrey on TV that I’ve seen, except, of course, for the mask thing. On the other hand, the one at left is pretty good, too. Certainly, the “other person” in the shot is even more notable than Sam Burns. This was in 2014 and Tiger was picking up his ball on 9 North at the conclusion of his round. He failed to make the cut that year and skipped the Farmers for a few years. It was my first year as a marshal at the tournament.
When your horizon for almost 180 degrees is at sea level, indeed is the sea, skies become quite big. I enjoyed watching the changing skies during the day and as the days changed. Here is a gallery of such views. (Click on the image and you can advance through larger images.)
While I have enjoyed watching excellent golf shots over the years, I always have considered people-watching the more fun part of being a marshal. People in tiger outfits, other outrageous clothing, inebriated, happy, loud. Their absence this year was profound. There were some people on the course, probably connected with Farmers Insurance or the Century Club, the local philanthropic group that puts on the tournament, but even the leaders or most popular groups of golfers attracted maybe a dozen spectators at most. Instead of the constant medium-level din of thousands of people attempting to stay quiet, punctuated on occasion by roars of appreciation at a particularly great shot, there was often deep quiet.
The absence of ambient sound greatly heightened the perception of singular sound. Caddies hushed marshals 50+ yards away who were chatting. Not talking loudly, just chatting. Twice, I was called out from 20+ yards away for folding a piece of paper and then handling, not opening, a bag of potato chips. It made one a little paranoid that some caddy or player somewhere in the radius of activity that constituted the cone of silence would single you out for what normally would have been lost in the ambience.
Torrey Pines is to host the US Open in June. I have applied to be a volunteer and have been accepted, though I don’t know what particular role I will fill. I hope conditions at the time will permit at least some fans. People are watching on TV, of course, but the absence of fans on the golf course made it seem as if you were on the sound stage of a television production, not at a golf tournament.
Another unusual experience in these most unusual 11 months.
This annus horribilis started off pretty nice, actually. In late January, I was a hole captain once again at the Farmers Insurance Open. Oversaw 15-25 marshals on the 9th hole, South Course, 615 yards. Except for my sightseeing days in Berlin in 2019, my personal records for steps had always been set on 9S. You can see more at the full post.
After the tournament, I settled back into my then relatively new routine at home. Drive Alice to pre-school midday, hold her hand as we walk in from the parking lot. Back at home, waited for my next task — walk the few hundred yards to the school bus stop, with Baxter my companion, to meet Adeline coming home. On Fridays, when Alice had no preschool, she accompanied me on our regular shopping stops — first to Costco (she loved the samples) and then the Commissary on Camp Pendleton.
In late February, a really fun event. Long-time dear friends Marcy and Larry Kenah took advantage of a family wedding in Oregon to stay on the West Coast a little longer and visit us in Fallbrook. With my guest quarters sharply reduced, they stayed in an Airbnb unit just up the hill from our house.
Marcy was especially interested in visiting Anza-Borrego Desert State Park, which Larry had seen on his trip here in 2013. (They were both to come then, to attend the BC-USC game, but Marcy chose to help out with the family’s new grandchild in Georgia.) We rendezvoused with Betty and Wayne White, long-time friends of the Kenahs who live in San Juan Capistrano. Spent most of the day seeing the sights in the desert. Then we traveled to Julian for its eponymous apple pie and on to Stone Brewery in Escondido, traditional end point of my county tours.
Next day started with really good corned-beef hash at Beach Break Cafe in Oceanside. After a stroll along the Oceanside Pier, I took them on a brief tour of Camp Pendleton and we closed out their visit with lunch in “downtown” Fallbrook. They traveled north to stay with the Whites for the remainder of their SoCal visit. Little did we know, of course, that the coronavirus was already around. More at full post.
March 11 was the last time Field Medical Training Battalion-West held a public graduation of classes that produce Navy personnel qualified to be Fleet Marine Force Hospital Corpsmen. For several years, I’ve represented the Navy League in recognizing the honor graduate of each class. Alice joined me in attending that March graduation and my first/last presentation of the year.
For a few weeks after that initial lockdown, there was a lot of uncertainty. Schools closed. When would they re-open? Would Meredith and Winter continue to work? My “income” is quite modest, but it is secure. Winter’s work in auto repair has been considered essential from the beginning. Meredith’s work at the local Boys & Girls Club, which continues to provide lots of services to local school children, is mostly from home. Economically, at least, our situation has been pretty much unaffected.
Mid-summer, I noted in my blog about serving in the Navy 50 years ago that I left USS Biddle (DLG-34) and reported as ordered to Naval Special Warfare Group, Pacific, on Naval Amphibious Base, Coronado, Calif. My first time in San Diego. I was able to get in touch with two officers of similar rank who served there with me — Fred Palmore in Midlothian, Va., and Randy Middleton, Normal, Ill. They’ve helped me add to recollections of the year we served together.
By fall, the girls were “going to school” online. Alice in kindergarten, Addy in a combo 3rd/4th grade. They still also attend ballet lessons, with students and instructors distanced and wearing masks.
Except for a single trip to get products curbside at the IKEA in San Diego (roundtrip 100.6 miles, single time in triple digits), my only “excursions” have been Sundays to the Post Office to get mail, followed by a 20-minute+ drive around the area to charge my car’s battery.
There have been no BC football game watches with San Diego Eagles. I have not been out to the desert since the Kenah visit. I fulfill my duties as Vice President of the Anza-Borrego Foundation through email, phone, and Zoom.
I have not had a haircut since February. At least not one by a trained barber. I looked a little like I did in the ’70s, hair-wise . . . except for the color and the amount on top. I finally just took scissors and hacked away at the back and used a hair clipper to work on the sides. Shorter, but quite uneven.
We’ve seen Dillon a few times, e.g., Alice’s birthday, his birthday, Thanksgiving. Distanced and masked. He’s working from home through 2021. I haven’t seen Julia in person since the end of our trip to Europe in June 2019 and Sam for a couple of years. I am thankful I am not alone at home (though I sometimes really miss silence).
We’ve become pretty adept at curbside pickup and delivery. While our house is relatively distant from others, we live in easy range of at least two Costcos, a couple of Walmarts and Targets, and maybe 50 miles from a large Amazon distribution center. In a few instances, I’ve ordered something on Amazon in late afternoon and it is sitting on our doorstep when I take the dog out the next morning. Can’t imagine how we’d do if we didn’t have those options.
In last year’s Christmas letter, I referred to 2020 as “hindsight.” You know, “Hindsight is 20/20.” I am so glad 2020 will soon and forever be in hindsight.
Merry Christmas to you and may 2021 be filled with fun . . . and be no re-run!
My first full day in my current home — 3706 South Mission Road, Fallbrook, Calif. — was January 1, 2012. The years since mean that I have lived here longer than anywhere else in my adult life. I’m in my 9th year here and two previous “long” residencies were about eight years each.
To some, this is likely no big deal. My friends who have lived in the same place for decades, however, might consider me at least footloose.
Since I graduated from Boston College in 1968, I’ve lived at 26 separate addresses in 19 different cities/towns, 22 zip codes, and six different states — Rhode Island, New York, Massachusetts, Connecticut, New Hampshire, and California. All but four residences were rentals (the Navy ship and Navy quarters ashore were free). I have owned one home in Massachusetts and three in California.
I’m going to give some information about each residence in chronological order. I’ve been able to find contemporary photos I took of some residences and have found images of others online, usually Google Street View.
After graduating from BC, I went home to Springfield, Mass., worked at the local newspaper, then took some time to drive out to Ohio to see friends and to Chicago to see a girl. Then I joined the Navy.
I had technically “joined” the Navy earlier in terms of taking the enlistment oath, etc. Being in the Navy started on September 28, 1968.
I was a member of Class A6903 and the 14 of us lived on the first floor of Nimitz Hall. Two guys to a room. Communal bathroom. Excuse me, communal head.
Some motel, Norfolk, Va. — February-May 1969
I spent nine weeks in Norfolk, Va., attending courses in Naval Intelligence and Combat Information Center (CIC) procedures. Stupidly, I did not take advantage of the free housing for bachelor officers and rented a room, likely by the week, in a local motel. I assume my mailing address would have been through the command.
USS Biddle (DLG-34)
I reported aboard Biddle on 3 May 1969 and lived on the ship for the next nine or so months, including a deployment to Southeast Asia (the Vietnam thing), and later for another month cruising in the Caribbean. For a couple of months in early 1970, I and two shipmates rented a house in Norfolk. No idea where.
Our mailing address was one of two Fleet Post Offices, one in New York and another in San Francisco, depending on which ocean we were in.
Bachelor Officers Quarters, Naval Amphibious Base, Coronado, Calif. — July 1970-July 1971
I was ordered to Commander, Naval Special Warfare Group, Pacific, which was located on the Naval Amphibious Base in Coronado.
The BOQ was a multi-story rectangular slab (and I cannot find a photo; Google Street View does not go onto the base), but the rooms were great, especially their free cost. And the view!
I was released from active duty a few months early, because the Navy was drawing down from Vietnam and I had been readmitted to Columbia Graduate School of Journalism beginning in September. After a couple of months at home, off to the Big Apple!
West 78th Street, New York City 10024 — 1971-72 My first residence in New York in 1971 was on West 78th Street, Manhattan. It’s probably a pretty tony address these days, but the early 1970s were not the greatest time in New York. Fun and all, but a bit dangerous and tawdry (which may have been some of the reasons it was fun).
I had driven down to the city from my parents’ house in Springfield, Mass., in the summer to find a place. In what would become typical fashion, I found it in a day and secured rental of a fourth-floor walkup on 78th Street, between West End Avenue and Riverside Drive. It was in an old brownstone, a perhaps once elegant home with rooms now broken up into apartments. A wall erected in the single room created a “bedroom” and a kitchen and bathroom were wedged into two corners.
I noted the presence on the apartment entry door of two deadbolt locks and a security bar. The bar had one end on the floor and the other was connected to the door near its handle. You slid the bar over to “lock” it in place. Hmmmm.
I stayed up late the first night I was there. Watched Citizen Kane on TV. When I woke up the next day, I saw that both deadbolts had been unlocked and the security bar had been moved, but not enough to “unlock” it. Yikes.
I made sure from then on that everything was locked up, and I think I jury-rigged something else to secure the door.
West 110th Street, New York City 10025 — 1972
For security reasons, and maybe others (mucho roaches), I moved from W78th after a couple of months. I must have been on a month-to-month or something. I probably found my next place from a list at Columbia. Ended up moving into a bedroom in an apartment in a massive building on West 110th Street, just east of Broadway and much closer to campus. My apartment mate was an elderly man (probably younger than I am now), who was very quiet and unobtrusive. His daughter, I believe, was the person who acted as “landlord.”
Columbia Journalism School was a one-year program. But “class” was every day, nine to five. If you didn’t have an actual “class” where you sat to listen to a lecture, you were out doing assigned reporting or working on a film (not video) or broadcast. I had been admitted originally to the Class of 1969 when Navy service intervened. I became acquainted with a member of that class when I later worked at Berkeley.
Tom Goldstein was dean of the Graduate School of Journalism at Berkeley 1988-96 and later became dean at Columbia. Tom told me that members of his class at Columbia (which would have been my class, too) had an average of three job offers per person. I believe that my class (1972) flipped that, with about a third of the class having any job offer at all. There had been a significant change in the Newspaper Guild contract, I recall being told, which disadvantaged most new journalists.
West Roxbury and Salem, Mass. — 1972
I ended up getting a job offer, though it was not at the New York Times or any other major paper. Sometime in the summer of 1972, I joined the staff of the Beverly Times, one in a newspaper “chain” based on the North Shore of Boston. Initially, I crashed at the apartment of friends in West Roxbury, sleeping on a couch.
The commute to work was . . . ah, difficult. It was about 30 miles each way, and one would do most of it on Route 128. It took quite a while and meant I needed to leave by around 6 am. I made the situation worse by staying up to watch the 1972 Democratic Convention. I was a fan of Senator George McGovern at the time and wanted to see him secure the nomination. That convention was more than fractious and procedures often went long past midnight.
So I was late to work several days in a row. It was not unnoticed. I was “urged” to move closer and get to work on time. I took a room at a pretty decrepit hotel in downtown Salem, Mass. It featured lawn furniture in the lobby. There were no phones or toilets in the rooms. You gave out the hotel number and, if someone called, this very loud buzzer would go off and you had to go to the lobby. Toilets were down the hall. I don’t recall the hotel name and doubt it still exists.
24 Fletcher Street, Winchester, Mass. 01890 — 1972-73
I think I lasted in Salem for only a few weeks, thank goodness. My savior was Reid Oslin, high school and college classmate. He called me to ask if I might want to be the third in a house rental in Winchester. Yes! Please!
The person who had secured the house was Gene Uchacz, director of the RecPlex and men’s lacrosse team at Boston College, where Reid also worked. The commute became significantly easier and the living arrangement was simply great. Not long after we moved in, Tommy joined us. Tommy was Gene’s Old English Sheepdog.
The house was a duplex, two bedrooms, one bath. We occupied the right-hand side. Being last one in, I lived up in the “attic,” with the gable window. Reid reminded me recently that there was no heat in the attic. I recall scraping ice off the inside of the window during the winter.
There were several, I mean many, wonderful parties. I spent time making party tapes, recording a mix of songs on a single tape to play on a reel-to-reel. That way, we didn’t need a record player and didn’t have to change records frequently. Just roll the tape and, when it ended a couple of hours later, rewind and replay. (I’m sure younger folks will be puzzled by these terms and references.)
One party apparently generated complaints from neighbors about noise. A couple of Winchester cops showed up. Checking the party out, they hung around for longer than maybe would have been necessary just to get us to turn the volume down.
Woodgate Apartments, Enfield, Conn. 06082 — 1973-74
Home life in Winchester was great, work life in Beverly not so much. I contacted the Springfield (Mass.) Daily News, where I had worked summers as a college student, and took a reporting job there.
I spent a few weeks living with my parents and then joined Leo de Natale, another former Beverly Times escapee who had gotten a job with the Hartford Times, in renting an apartment in the Woodgate Apartments in Enfield, Conn., just over the state line from Springfield.
More good times, and an even easier commute. But I did miss being in the Boston area.
Mediterranean Woods, South Weymouth, Mass. 02188– 1974-75
Reid came through again. In summer 1974, he contacted me and said there had been a change in the public relations staff at BC, with Eddie Miller now the chief PR person. Eddie, he said, was interested in talking with me about joining his staff. I was offered a job and got a raise.
Back to Boston . . . and BC!
After a couple of weeks sharing a house with another former Beverly Times colleague on Hawes Street in Cambridge, Mass., I joined my sister, Ann, at Mediterranean Woods, South Weymouth, an apartment complex just off Route 3.
That led to some number of months “enjoying” the commute between Chestnut Hill and the South Shore. It was worse than the earlier North Shore commute.
Beacon Street, Boston, Mass. 02116 — 1975-76
One of the tonier addresses on this list is my year or so on Beacon Street in Boston’s Back Bay, between Clarendon and Dartmouth streets. This apartment was another instance of a grand townhouse turned into separate apartments. My second-floor unit faced the street and had large bay windows on that front wall. A kitchen and bath area had been carved into a corner and my “bedroom” was a loft.
It was a great location in terms of access to much of what Boston had to offer. It also had no assigned parking. Spent a lot of time trying to find a parking space, feeding meters, and walking back and forth to wherever it was I could find a space. I remember, in one snowstorm, just driving into a pile of snow and leaving it.
We made best use of the location at the annual Boston Pops July Fourth Celebration on the Esplanade in 1976. That was America’s Bicentennial, so it was an extra special occasion, attended by an estimated 400,000 people. Ann and friends dropped stuff off at my apartment early and we joined the throngs on the Esplanade, a few hundred yards away.
The location was especially helpful in terms of toilet. There were perpetual long lines at the porta-potties, but my apartment was an easy walk.
I also remember an earlier special night, even though I was alone in the apartment, pretty sick with the flu. I was on the couch, watching on a very small TV the sixth game of the 1975 World Series, taking place less than a mile west of me, in Fenway Park. The game against Cincinnati had gone into the 12th inning. Boston catcher Carlton Fisk was at bat. He hit a long fly ball toward the Green Monster in left field. As he ran down the first base line, he motioned with his arms for the ball to stay in fair territory. Only barely. The ball hit the foul pole, which meant it was a fair ball and the winning home run. I think I tried to cheer. I may well have failed in that, but I had a pleasant sleep.
Lake Shore Road, Brighton, Mass. 02135 — 1976-77
Rent for the Beacon Street apartment was $325 a month, I believe. That would be about $1,600 today. I think my salary at the time was maybe $14,000 a year. After taxes and other expenses, that rent started to hurt a little. I thought it better to find a roommate or two to reduce expenditures.
Len Deluca, whom I had come to know working at BC, was a student at BC Law then. I joined him and a guy named Howie, renting an apartment in Towne Estates, a collection of apartment buildings off Lake Street and adjoining Chandler’s Pond (the “lake”), only a few blocks away from Commonwealth Avenue and the BC campus.
This commute was so easy that I remember driving to work one morning, maybe early, when it was snowing, and realizing after a while that I was alone. I called the BC operator (another puzzler for young’uns), who informed me BC was closed due to the storm.
425 Partridge Street, Franklin, Mass. 02038 — 1977-82
I turned 30 in 1976 and actually had a bit of a tough time about it. “Adulthood” and all that that entailed loomed before me. And it came to be.
I had met and was dating on a singular basis a young woman named Rebecca. Holding a steady job and eligible for a VA loan, which required no down payment, I looked into buying a house.
Rebecca joined me on the tours of houses and I noticed that the real estate agents (all women, as I remember) spent most of the time talking with her. What about a house was she interested in? What was her reaction to the house we just saw? I ended up in the back seat, literally and figuratively.
They were smarter than I was, however. I, with Rebecca’s approval, bought a small Cape in Franklin, a community still containing a lot of farms southeast of Boston, a marathon (26 miles) away. I think the mortgage was for $36,000. We moved in sometime in the early fall of 1977.
The house had 1,296 square feet, two bedrooms and a bath on the ground floor, with two bedrooms in a finished attic
We lived there when we were married (in 1978) and had our first two children (1980 and 1982).
In 1979, we took a road trip across the United States in our Volkswagon diesel Rabbit. When we came back, we agreed there were three places we visited to which we would consider a move — New Orleans, San Diego, and San Francisco.
I had been working at BC for eight years. I had been told I would not be considered for the open position of Director of Public Relations because I was considered “too radical.” So I thought about a change.
I saw a job opening at the University of Southern California for director of publications and applied. I interviewed with my prospective boss for the job at the annual conference of the Council for Advancement and Support of Education (CASE), which saved him the cost of my visiting LA. Soon thereafter, I learned someone else had been selected. Bummer.
Then I was contacted by San Diego State University. The person who was director of publications there was the person selected by USC. They asked USC who their second choice had been and it was me. SDSU didn’t want to go through a lengthy search process, so I got the call. I met my prospective boss at BC as she was attending a conference in Boston.
This was taking place near the end of Rebecca’s pregnancy with our second child, a circumstance that did not allow me right away to make a visit to San Diego. Son Dillon was born on October 1, 1982, and I soon took my trip. Two days of interviews and I was hired. They had a realtor drive me around to look at a few options for housing. I remember thinking the neighborhoods looked so familiar. Then I realized the familiarity came from seeing ones just like them on so many TV shows.
8622 Warmwell Drive, San Diego, Calif. 92119 — 1982-84
BC colleague and good friend Lee Pellegrini agreed to accompany me on a cross-country drive to San Diego, in the Rabbit again. I believe I paid for housing and food, as well as his plane trip home. It took us six days or so.
Once we were in San Diego, we set out to look at rentals. Unfamiliar with San Diego, we didn’t realize how the topography made finding addresses difficult. You might be looking for an address with the number 3545, get on the street and find that the street ended at 2887. Additional houses were on the other side of the canyon where the same street continued. It happened several times. This is way pre-GPS, of course.
Found a place in the San Carlos neighborhood, in the eastern part of the city. Not a Cape. This was one floor, large open living area, three bedrooms, one bath, 1,577 square feet, patio, canyon view. SoCal!
We had sold the house in Franklin, so Rebecca and the two kids, ages 2 years and a couple of months, spent a bit of time in Springfield with my parents before flying out to California. I’m pretty sure they flew out of Bradley Field in Connecticut and that there were at least two connecting flights to get to San Diego. Not easy for Rebecca. They arrived not long after the movers and came to San Diego during one of the wettest winters in its history. 🙂
My employment was probationary for the first two years. I realized not long into my employ that my boss wanted me to do something about a member of my staff with which I disagreed. I then realized that my employment might well be terminated if I didn’t do it, so I started looking for a change. A colleague at SDSU told me about an opening at University of California Berkeley.
7116 Plank Avenue, El Cerrito, Calif. 94530 — 1984-85
I was invited to come up to Berkeley for an interview. When I learned that they intended to offer me the job, depending on references, etc., I explained the circumstances that had prompted me to look for a job after less than two years in my current one and asked that they not contact my boss. They agreed. It was such a pleasure later to surprise my boss with the announcement that I would be working at Berkeley.
Berkeley provided listings of rentals to prospective employees and faculty. I flew up one morning and started to check them out. By the time I left that afternoon back to San Diego, I had secured a rental in El Cerrito, a couple of towns north of Berkeley in the East Bay.
One floor, three bedrooms, two baths, 1,219 square feet.
1605 Bonita Avenue, Berkeley, Calif. 94709 — 1985-92
Again, feeling secure in my job and getting pretty good pay, we started to look for a home to buy. Our realtor found a home in what had been termed the “gourmet ghetto” of Berkeley, maybe three-quarters of a mile north of my office. The area contained several notable eating, food, and coffee establishments, including Chez Panisse and the first Peet’s Coffee. A San Francisco Chronicle article had given the area the moniker, citing that people “dressed up for breadlines” as they sought morning fare from bakeries.
The university had been founded in the mid-19th century on what was described as the “German model.” Students would live in the community surrounding the university rather than in dormitories, and faculty would also be in the community. As a result, Berkeley had few dorms for students and many properties were constructed or renovated to provide student housing.
The house we bought was a late 19th-century maybe Queen Ann-style, gabled but on the low end of ornamentation. It had two unconnected floors. The lower level had been renovated into a two-bedroom/one bath rental unit, and the upper level was also two bedrooms, one bath, and had a dropped ceiling. In the back yard had been plunked another rental unit, a two-bedroom/one-bath single-story “ranch” house.
With our kids young, we figured we could rent out the bottom unit to students. And we wanted the back house as a potential place for my mother to live.
Mortgage rates at the time were about 12 percent. The people who owned the house thought of us, our realtor said, as a nice young family (which we were) that could use a break (which we could). Our original mortgage was interest-only payments with a balloon for the whole amount in five years. We were able to secure regular financing within a couple of years.
My mother did move into the house in the back. Using some of the proceeds from the sale of her house back in Springfield, Mass., we moved her furniture and belongings out and renovated the house for her arrival.
We also began renovation of the main house. The kids were older and more numerous, with a second daughter born in 1989. We wanted to connect the two floors in the main house by adding a simple stairway inside, which required a permit. The city ruled, however, that such an action was against city policy in that it would reduce the number of distinct rental units and the permit was denied. We did what many other owners did and built the stairway anyway (the person who later bought the house from us had no problem with that).
By the early ’90s, we were concerned about schools for our kids who were now approaching or at middle school age. Berkeley public schools were iffy and private schools expensive. My mother had Alzheimer’s disease and it had progressed to the point that she needed to be in an assisted-living facility. We decided to look into communities on the other side of the Berkeley/Oakland hills.
The person who bought the house from us in 1992 still lives there. Realtor.com estimates the current value of the property at $1,745,000.
45 Robert Road, Orinda, Calif. 94563 — 1992-95
We bought our “dream house” in summer 1992. It was located in the town of Orinda. Single-story, four bedrooms, two baths, walk-in pantry, Sub-Zero refrigerator, and a pool.
Be careful what you wish for.
For reasons I expect actually had nothing to do with the house, Rebecca almost immediately began to talk about returning to New Hampshire, where she had been born and raised. To make a long, depressing story short, she filed for divorce and left for New Hampshire after Christmas, taking our three-year-old daughter with her, and leaving our son and older daughter with me. She returned to us in the spring, but the divorce proceeded and I was soon under court order to sell the house.
It took quite a while. And in 1996, the house was sold for $65,000 less than we paid. Currently, Zillow estimates its value at $1.95 million.
3366 Mount Diablo Blvd. #52, Lafayette, Calif. 94549 — 1995-96
Lafayette was and is a nice community just east of Orinda. Park Lafayette Apartments was an apartment complex “downtown.” Not a home, just a place to stay.
Based on how our divorce judge had ruled previously, I figured the only way I was going to continue to be able to see my kids was to get a position in New Hampshire. I saw an opening for a director of publications at the University of New Hampshire, Durham. I applied and, after coming up with a rationale for why I was leaving Berkeley for UNH and taking a significant pay cut, I was hired.
I was due to start September 1. Then Rebecca sought a new custody evaluation. We had 50-50 custody of the three kids at the time. The therapist appointed as special master for the evaluation was vacationing in August and wouldn’t be able to start until September. The special master advised that we be on a week-to-week custody exchange.
I was able to arrange with my bosses at Berkeley and UNH that I would continue to work for Berkeley until the evaluation was concluded and “commute” to UNH every other week, beginning my work there as a “consultant.”
Thus began several weeks of coast-to-coast flights San Francisco-Boston. Lots of money, but also lots of mileage points.
Again to alleviate the reader from extended discussion of the custody evaluation, the decision came down. I was awarded full legal and physical custody of my son and younger daughter, while my then-16-year-old daughter would stay with her mother but undergo reconciliation with me.
Longmarsh Road, Durham, N.H. 03824 — October 1996-February 1997
We moved to the sticks. I couldn’t find the house on Google Street View or a picture from that time. Indeed, Google Street View does not go far enough on Longmarsh Road to view the house. This overview gives you a good idea of the area.
I rented the house knowing it had been put up for sale. The agent and owners assured me that was not likely to happen anytime soon. So, of course, a couple of months after we moved in, I was informed the house had been sold and we would need to vacate no later than February.
16 Denbow Road, Durham, N.H. 03824 — February 1997 – May 2000
It’s not like there are a ton of rental opportunities in the Seacoast area of New Hampshire in mid-winter. I got lucky for the first time in a long time.
This house was bigger than we needed, and is, I believe, the biggest house in which I have ever lived. It was available, somewhat affordable, and less isolated than Longmarsh. Just under 2,300 square feet, four bedrooms, two-and-a-half baths. The lot was .92 acres, another record at the time.
We spent more than three years there. We might have stayed longer, but I had another boss who sought to pressure me to do things I thought not good for staff. We actually parted ways in spring 1999 and I spent a year trying to do some consulting from home. My son was in his senior year of high school and I was worried that getting another job that would require relocation was adding too much instability to my kids.
With my son approaching graduation, however, I needed to get another job.
15 Feneno Terrace, Brookline, Mass. 02446 — June 2000-July 2008
Another “long” residence. Former BC colleague Ben Birnbaum told me about a job opening at the Lynch School of Education at BC. I applied and was hired, to begin May 1. Ben also had told me the first floor apartment in his home was available, beginning June 1.
For the month of May 2000, I commuted Durham-Boston. It was frustrating to cross the Tobin Bridge, after driving an hour, have the Prudential Center in view and know I probably had another hour ahead of me to cover the last 10 miles. It was a bit easier going back to New Hampshire in the evening, except for Fridays. If I left at 5 on Fridays, I expected to get to Durham around 8 pm.
In June, we moved to Brookline. Feneno Terrace is a short dead-end street that originates in the Boston neighborhood of Allston. Only the last house on each side of the street in this picture is in Brookline. Our apartment is on the right.
I was able to enroll my daughter in Brookline schools. Her first was Devotion School, on Harvard Street near Coolidge Corner, where she attended sixth-eighth grades.
We left the largest home in which we had lived into the smallest. The apartment was two-bedroom, one bath, with a dining room and kitchen.
87 Beal Road, Waltham, Mass. 02453 — July 2008-August 2010
Maybe feeling footloose after eight years, I wanted a bigger place and found a rental in Waltham. My daughter had graduated from Brookline High School the year before and was in her freshman year at St. John’s College in Annapolis, Md. She spent vacations and summers in Waltham.
Three bedrooms, one-and-a-half baths, 1,376 square feet, and a pool.
I remember a maintenance routine for the pool in which some of the water was pumped out. The procedure was supposed to be somewhat brief. One morning, I started the procedure. When I came home in the afternoon, I looked out the kitchen window at the pool and was surprised at how clear the water was.
Then I realized, “What water?” It was “clear” because it was air. I had pumped out the entire contents of the pool. !!??
I don’t think it was for that reason, but the owner not long after chose to have the pool removed.
Once again, we had the house pulled out from under us when the owner notified me in summer 2010 that the house had been sold.
70 Hope Avenue #201, Waltham, Mass. 02453 — September 2010-September 2011
Longview Place Apartments, also in Waltham, offered a promotion in summer 2010 — discounted rent and utilities included. Two bedroom, two baths, about 1,200 square feet. Nice modern apartment.
The following year, there was a significant increase in rent.
My last day of work at BC was to be December 31, 2011. In the spring, I began to look for a place to retire. I didn’t have Southern California on my radar at all. One day, looking online at the LA Times, I saw an article about a sharp decline in housing prices in Oceanside, Calif. “I know where that is,” I thought.
Browsing real estate websites, I saw that the price range for houses in that area of North San Diego County at the time might be doable. Moving a bit further from the coast, I came across a community with which I was totally unfamiliar. Prices were even better in Fallbrook and there was land. I did not want to live in the California I had been used to, with houses often very close together, with small lots.
I had to figure out a way to explain that, while I was working at Boston College, I was buying a house 3,000 miles away. I was able to get my boss, who knew of my plans, to sign a statement authorizing me to work from home, even one in California. It worked and I received approval from my bank and a mortgage company for a mortgage in an amount that would permit me to buy in the Fallbrook area.
In August 2011, I traveled to San Diego. I had tracked down 10-12 homes I wanted to check out and spent a couple of days driving around Fallbrook to view them. When I met with my realtor, he informed that all but two had been sold. We drove out to the two and neither was satisfactory.
As we left the second house, the realtor asked if I might look at a house he was representing. It was not yet listed on the market, but he thought it might be of interest to me. Though disappointed at the spare pickings, I agreed. We drove to it and the entrance was initially rather blasé to me.
Walking in, however, I saw the open layout and the view. Four bedrooms, two baths, combo dining/living area, 1,680 square feet, and on 1.35 acres. And the price was right. I didn’t need four bedrooms, but I wanted the house to be perhaps a bridge for my kids, a place they might live until they found a place of their own.
I told the realtor this could work and I would give an answer the next day. I called the next day and said let’s go for it.
I returned to Boston and began the paperwork process to try to secure the house. The realtor advised me to offer less than the asking price, which I did. The counteroffer came back $1,000 higher. “Okay, what’s the catch?” I asked the realtor. He said it was simply to reach the owner’s “emotional minimum,” and we got going on the rest of the paperwork. The realtor said I bought the house for about half of what it would have cost a few years earlier.
First time in my life, I think, that I bought low.
My lease at Longview was about to run out and I had to begin making mortgage payments on the Fallbrook house, so I looked for an inexpensive gap rental.
63 Forest Street, Brookline, Mass. 02445 — October-December 2011
A basement unit in this house was listed at BC as available. It was located in an area called Buttonwood Village, just a block or two from The Country Club, world-famous golf course.
The owner had not gotten interest from students earlier in the fall, so she was amenable to renting to me for a few weeks.
I had a moving firm put my furniture, etc., into storage. The plan was for me and the moving van to go across country at about the same time.
BC has an extended holiday break for staff. I figured I would start the drive on the day after Christmas. My younger daughter and her boyfriend accompanied me and my cat. Neither of them had a driver’s license, however, so I drove the distance. The last day of the drive was December 31, 2o11, Tucson to Fallbrook.
3706 South Mission Road, Fallbrook, Calif. 92028 — January 2012 – ?
Upon arrival, having worried about the house being vacant for four months, I was very happy to see that squatters had not established residence and that no one had come in and trashed it. We made an emergency trip to IKEA for mattresses and bedding and woke up the next morning in 2012.
In late February, two dear friends — Larry and Marcy Kenah — visited. They’re residents of Acton, Mass., had gone out to Bend, Ore., to join family celebrating their nephew’s 50th birthday, and decided to venture south.
I picked them up at the airport early afternoon on February 24 and we went for lunch at Stone Brewery Bistro in Liberty Station. I took the “long” way home after that so they could see more of inland San Diego. Our first stop, though, was UC San Diego, to see the Geisel Library there (named for Theodor Geisel, “Dr. Seuss” and a native of my hometown, Springfield, Mass.). It’s one of San Diego’s iconic buildings.
There’s also a bit of surprise behind the library. Here’s a photo of Larry and Marcy with the “surprise” circled.
Yes, it’s a house embedded into the corner of a building. Indeed, it is attached to the Jacobs School of Engineering main building. “Fallen Star” is an art installation by South Korean artist Do Ho Suh. The house is fully furnished and has a “yard.” It’s open a couple of days a week for public tours. Here’s a closer view from the UCSD “Fallen Star” website.
Back to more “mundane” matters.
The Kenahs joined us, including the Andersons and Dillon, for dinner at Harlow’s, a new restaurant in neighboring Bonsall. They spent that night and the next just up the hill from my house in a neighbor’s unit rented through Airbnb. Short walk between us.
Tuesday was our day in the desert. I had taken Larry out to Anza-Borrego Desert State Park during his visit in 2013 for the BC-USC football game in LA. Though Marcy had originally planned to accompany Larry here then, she decided assisting with a new grandchild was more deserving. She was particularly interested in making the trip to the desert on this visit.
Joining us on the trip were Betty and Wayne White, long-time friends of the Kenahs who live in San Juan Capistrano. As the route they planned to take to the desert brought them only two miles south of my house, we connected with them in Bonsall and caravanned out to Borrego Springs.
First, however, was a stop at Warner Springs to see Eagle Rock. It is a natural rock formation, located on the Pacific Crest Trail, but accessible only via hiking, three+ miles each way from Warner Springs. You can see it, however, ironically to Eagle/BC fans, from Camino San Ignacio. I had hoped we could get through the fence and get closer on foot, but the Vista Irrigation District, which owns the land, seems to have bolstered their barbed wire defenses. From the road, it was somewhat more difficult to discern the shape.
This photo had been taken on an alumni chapter trip to the rock in 2016.
After Warner Springs, we drove down the dramatic Montezuma Grade from Ranchita to Borrego Springs. It’s a drop from 4,065 feet in elevation to 597 feet in 10 miles of severe switchback roads. Here’s a shot of the Kenahs and Whites at an observation point on the grade.
We took a brief tour of the community of Borrego Springs, visiting the Anza-Borrego Foundation offices and its State Parks Store, both at The Mall. Then we made a stop at the Serpent Sculpture and drove east to the Badlands. Returning to Borrego Springs for lunch, we then drove out to the Texas Dip and visited Tamarisk Grove, finishing with hikes on the Cactus Loop Trail and Yaqui Well Trail. Here’s video (2:59) of the day in the desert.
We then headed west to Julian, climbing back up to over 4,20o feet elevation, to make a stop at the Julian Pie Co., for some of their delicious apple pie. The Whites then headed off to the rest of their day and we made our way to the Stone Brewing World Bistro and Gardens in Escondido for a repast. When Larry visited in 2013, we concluded my San-Diego-County-in-a-Day tour there and he sat in one of Stone’s Adirondack chairs holding a cold beer. Since that visit, I have brought each visitor there to have them sit in the “Larry Kenah Commemorative Chair.” It was near dark when we got there this year so the picture of Marcy in “the chair” is less than excellent.
On their last day with me, we started at my favorite breakfast spot — Beach Break Cafe in Oceanside. I have never eaten any thing there other than corned beef hash. Larry and Marcy were sufficiently persuaded by my enthusiasm to order it as well and are now, I believe, fellow enthusiasts.
Oceanside, once a pretty tawdry town infused with off-duty Marines from adjacent Camp Pendleton, has improved by at least several notches. It is still a quintessential SoCal beach town. Beach Break is in “South Oceanside.”
Beach Break does not hold back on its surfer vibe. Surfboards hang from the ceiling and are mounted on walls. Video screens show great surfing rides. The walls are festooned with photos, many autographed by the famous surfers who have visited the restaurant. The oceanic vibe extends to the restrooms as well. Here’s a gallery of shots taken at the restaurant by Marcy.
We then took the short trip to the Oceanside Pier. At 1,942 feet, it is reportedly the West Coast’s longest public pier. We walked maybe halfway along the pier, watching the waves, surfers, and birds. Here’s Larry and me pier side north.
Here’s very brief video (0:24) from the pier.
Just a short hop to Del Mar Beach (not the town) at Camp Pendleton.
It’s about a dozen miles from the coast to Fallbrook and the route is essentially across the width of Camp Pendleton and the adjacent Naval Weapons Station, where taking photos is problematic.
After lunch in “downtown” Fallbrook, the Kenahs took off for the Whites’ home in San Juan Capistrano to finish their SoCal week. As I consistently and perhaps annoyingly reminded them during their visit, “It’s February!”
Australian Marc Leishman came from back in the field on the final day to win the 2020 Farmers Insurance Open January 26. He shot a 7-under-par 65 to win by 1 over Jon Rahm, 3rd-round leader and winner of the tournament in 2017.
With my duties as hole captain of 9 South on the Torrey Pines course finished, I sat in the volunteer tent and watched the final holes on television. Leishman had finished his round with a 2-shot lead over Rahm as Rahm played the 18th. In winning in 2017, Rahm had sunk a 60-foot putt on the 18th for an eagle. This year, his second shot landed eerily close to the same spot on the green as in 2017, giving him almost the same putt.
If Rahm had sunk another eagle putt, he would have been in a playoff with Leishman. That would have required many marshals, including me, to stay longer. I had nothing against Rahm, but I was rooting for a miss. His putt was closer than was comfortable, but it missed and he got a birdie. I got to go home.
My five-day stint at the tournament began Wednesday, January 22, the day of the pro-am. Toughest day of the tournament for volunteers — dawn to dusk. For the first time in my life, I believe, I was in line for gas at Costco before the gas pumps opened. Below is the scene at 5:20 am at the Escondido Costco. Already a line. :0
Wednesday is the day on which the marshals and I adjust to changes in our duties on the hole and to train new marshals. There was good and bad news in terms of changes, the most significant being that parking lot shuttles would be using the cart path and spectators would also be permitted on that East side. The changes required some initial adjustment, but they seemed to have little substantial effect, at least on what we needed to do.
For me, at least, the golf during the tournament is almost immaterial. My “world” consists of the 615 yards 9 South runs, the surrounding nearby area of the course, and the marshals who are assigned. On that first day, Wednesday, I spend nearly all the day walking to various marshal positions, talking with people, checking out conditions, trying to resolve issues that might arise. On that date, I walked 20,153 steps covering 7.7 miles. Broke my domestic PR set last year at the tournament, but still fell short of the 9+ miles I walked on a day in Berlin last June.
The weather played some games with us this year, though nothing like the conditions in 2016 that suspended play for the day. This time, it was just fog. Just fog, he says. In 2013, fog delayed the start of play on Saturday. I sat on the tee of 11 South, a par-3, watching the green appear briefly then disappear. Play was continually delayed during the day . . . and never took place that day. I was there on the tee from about 7 am until mid-afternoon, when play was finally cancelled.
On Thursday, fog rolled in quite quickly, but left after about 25 minutes. The picture below shows the difference, looking at the 9th green.
Fog also delayed the start of play on Saturday, but only for about an hour.
As has been the case whenever Tiger plays the tournament, celebrity trumps golf and he attracts bigger crowds than even the tournament leaders. The ninth and 18th holes somewhat overlap at Torrey Pines South, with the 9th tee heading south and 18th tee heading north. Here’s a photo shot from the 9th tee of the crowd at the 18th tee when Tiger’s group was up, at back left.
The only real photo of Tiger I got was from the back and far away. Marshals are to avoid using our “inside the ropes” status to take photos, so this photo was “subtle.” It’s Sunday, so it’s red shirt for Tiger.
This photo also shows one of the changes made to 9S in preparation for the US Open, which is to be held at Torrey Pines in 2021. A large area is now behind the green to collect shots that are too long. Shooting from it onto a green that slopes away the area adds to the difficulty of the hole.
There is also a new sand trap short of the green on the right that occupies some of the fairway. A report I saw said it was to encourage players to try to reach the green in two. During this tournament, I saw only two players — Rory McElroy and Bubba Watson — reach the green with their second shot.
Here’s a TV schematic showing the changes in 9S from last year.
And here, just because I like raptors, is a TV screen shot of two of Torrey Pines’s locals.
Volunteers at the Farmers for the past three years are given priority as volunteers at the US Open at Torrey Pines. I submitted my application yesterday. There is also another Farmers Insurance Open scheduled for January 2021, so watch for what I hope will be two interesting reports on golf and nice photos next year.
First Christmas in Fallbrook for the Andersons and thus a very different Christmas for me, too.
I had never attended the annual Fallbrook Christmas Parade until this year. Below is video (5:12) from the December 7 parade. It’s held in the evening, which accounts for the rather dim video. Evening is more convenient for folks, I guess, and closing Main Street on the weekend would be problematic, but evening is also good for showing off the Christmas lighting.
Actual Christmas was also different. For only the second time (the first time being when Julia was living here), we had a tree. For the first time, I wore an attractive(?) Christmas sweater. And instead of the usual Dillon-and-me brunch, with chorizo and nopales (cactus) scrambled eggs, it was opening of gifts and Christmas dinner, featuring ham sent by Annie and Gordon.